Relationship + Sexuality Resources

On Relationships

The Power of Attachment by by Diane Poole Heller

Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkins

Wired for Love by Stan Takin

We Do by Stan Takin

Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson

Eight Dates by Gottman 

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Podcasts by Esther Perel

Non Monogamy Resources

The Non Monogamy Card Game

PolySecure by Jessica Fern

On Sexuality

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

O School, Free Sex Education Articles

OMGYES, techniques for female pleasure

Cockfidence: The Definitive Guide to Being The Man You Want To Be And Driving Women Wild by Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel

Sexuality for Couples

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by David Schnarch

Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections by Emily Nagoski, PhD

Wheel of Consent

An amazing tool created by Betty Martin to look at giving and receiving touch and pleasure.

I often recommend partners what this video together and and then take some time to discuss afterwards.

Religion and Sexual Shame

Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers

Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free by Linda Kay Klein

On Pelvic and Sexual Pain

Hello, Down There: A guide to healing chronic pelvic and sexual pain by Alexandra T Milspaw